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Baby refuses puree completely — should I stop?

For 3 weeks I've been trying to give my baby (6.5 months) puree. They turn their head away every time and cry. Should I take a break?

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Yes, a break might be exactly what you need!

In short: If your baby consistently refuses porridge after 3 weeks of trying, a break of 1-2 weeks is often the best solution. Some babies simply need more time.

Possible reasons for refusing food

  • Not ready for solids yet — some babies aren't ready until 7 months
  • Tongue thrust reflex still active — baby automatically pushes everything out
  • Wrong consistency — too thick? Too thin? Too lumpy?
  • Wrong timing — too tired, too hungry, too full
  • Taste — carrots aren't every baby's favorite
  • Sensing pressure — babies pick up on tension immediately

What you can try

  1. 2-week break — no pressure, no attempts, milk is completely sufficient
  2. BLW instead of porridge — some babies want to feed THEMSELVES, not be spoon-fed
  3. Different flavor — sweet potato, pear, avocado instead of classic carrot
  4. Let baby join in — have baby sit at the table with you, let them try your food
  5. Playful approach — let baby hold the spoon themselves, let them play with the food
  6. Let them participate — only OFFER disliked vegetables, never force them

When there's no reason to worry

As long as your baby:

  • Is gaining weight well
  • Drinks enough milk
  • Is developmentally active as expected

...everything is on track. The recommendation to introduce solids at 6 months is a guideline, not a rule.

What other moms report

"After a 2-week break, my son suddenly showed interest — like a switch had been flipped."

"Porridge didn't work at all. BLW was the solution — he just wanted to decide for himself."

This information does not replace medical advice.

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