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Month 21

Your baby is 21 months old

Toddler

Milestones

  • Sorts by color
  • Understands possession ('mine!')
  • Complex role-playing scenarios
  • Can attempt simple shapes (trying circles)

Sleep

12 hours. Night fears may occur — night light, open door, soothing words. For nightmares: briefly comfort and lay back down.

Nutrition

Child has clear likes and dislikes. This is normal and not a cause for concern. No snacks between meals (except planned ones). Water, water, water.

Play & Development

Painting with watercolors and finger paints, shaping play dough, simple Lego builds, dancing to music, hide and seek, collecting natural materials.

Tips

  • 'Mine!' is an important developmental step — learning to understand possession
  • Sharing can't be forced — being a role model helps more
  • Color game: 'Show me everything that's red!'
  • Take night fears seriously but don't dramatize

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