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My 4-month-old baby doesn't sleep through the night anymore, what should I do?

My baby used to sleep 5-6 hours straight, but now wakes up every 1-2 hours. I'm so exhausted.

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Sleep Regression at 4 Months — You're Not Doing Anything Wrong 💙

In short: Yes, this looks exactly like the 4-month sleep regression. It usually lasts 2-6 weeks and is a sign of healthy brain development in your baby.

Why does it happen?

In the 4th month, your baby's sleep cycles change dramatically:

  • Sleep cycles become like an adult's — alternating between light and deep sleep
  • Between cycles (every 45-90 minutes) your baby wakes briefly
  • Your baby still doesn't know how to fall back asleep on their own — they need your help
  • This is a sign of normal development, not a problem

What helps?

  • White noise — helps your baby transition between sleep cycles
  • Dark room — use blackout curtains
  • Consistent routine — bath, feeding, song, the same every night
  • Put them to bed early — overtired babies sleep worse
  • Patience — this period is temporary

What do other moms say?

"It lasted 3 weeks for us. Everyone kept telling me 'just let them cry a little.' I didn't, and it sorted itself out. The patience really is worth it."

"My mother-in-law kept saying 'give them cow's milk' but the doctor said breast milk only until 6 months. I trusted the doctor and made the right choice."

When should you see a doctor?

  • If your baby seems sick (fever, vomiting) — not just fussy
  • If they refuse food during the day
  • If it continues for more than 8 weeks

This information does not replace medical advice.

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