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Newborn essentials — what do you REALLY need? The honest list

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Baby Essentials — the HONEST List (without marketing fluff)

In a nutshell: The baby industry wants to sell you 500 things. You actually need about 30. Here's what you REALLY need — and what you can skip.

MUST-HAVES (you can't do without these)

Sleep:

  • Baby crib or bedside sleeper (secondhand okay, mattress MUST BE NEW)
  • 2-3 sleep sacks (size 50/56 to start, TOG depending on season)
  • 2 fitted sheets (cotton)
  • NO pillows, blankets, bumpers, or stuffed animals!

Clothing (size 50/56, buy minimal — babies grow FAST):

  • 6-8 bodysuits (long-sleeved)
  • 4-6 rompers or sleepers
  • 3 hats
  • 3 pairs of socks
  • 1 jacket/snowsuit (depending on season)
  • 2 wrap bodysuits (easier to put on/take off for newborns)

Diaper changing:

  • Diapers size 1 (NB) — 1 pack is enough to test
  • Wet wipes OR washcloths + water (enough for a newborn)
  • Changing pad (wipeable)
  • Diaper rash cream (zinc oxide)
  • Diaper pail (brand doesn't matter, just needs a lid)

On the go:

  • Car seat (group 0+, NEVER secondhand without accident history!)
  • Stroller OR baby carrier (you need BOTH from day 1)

Feeding:

  • 2-3 nursing pillows (the cheap C-shaped ones work fine)
  • Lanolin cream (nipple care)
  • 6 burp cloths/muslin cloths
  • If bottle feeding: 4-6 bottles + brush + infant formula + sterilizer

Care:

  • Baby bathtub OR sink insert
  • 2 hooded towels
  • Baby nail scissors (from week 4)
  • Thermometer (rectal)
  • Saline nasal drops

NICE-TO-HAVE (but not necessary)

  • Pacifiers (some babies don't want them)
  • Baby bouncer (helpful but not essential)
  • Music box
  • Mobile
  • Heat lamp for changing table (useful in winter)

YOU DON'T NEED THIS (save your money)

  • ❌ Changing table (dresser with pad works fine)
  • ❌ Diaper subscription (compare prices, often cheaper on sale)
  • ❌ Bathroom heat lamp
  • ❌ Baby scale (checkups at the doctor are enough)
  • ❌ Sterilizer for pacifiers (boiling works)
  • ❌ Bottle warmer (water bath works)
  • ❌ 20 bodysuits in size 50 (baby outgrows them in 2-4 weeks!)
  • ❌ Sheepskin (SIDS risk in bed)
  • ❌ Bumpers for crib (SIDS risk)
  • ❌ Baby shoes (baby doesn't need shoes until they walk outside)

Budget Tips

  • Buy secondhand: Clothing, stroller, crib (mattress NEW!)
  • Borrow: Carrier consultation, baby bouncer
  • Gift registry: Ask family instead of buying duplicates
  • Start minimal: You CAN buy more later. You CAN'T return what you never needed.

Realistic costs for baby essentials: €500-800 (secondhand) / €1,500-3,000 (all new)

This information is not product advertising.

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