That sounds like colic — and you're not alone!
In a nutshell: Legs pulled up, red face, and hours of crying in the evening with a 6-week-old baby — that's the classic picture of colic. The good news: it passes, usually by the 3rd-4th month.
What is colic?
- The rule of threes: More than 3 hours of crying, on more than 3 days/week, for more than 3 weeks
- Affects about 20% of all babies — you are NOT to blame!
- The exact cause is still not fully understood today
- Likely a combination of an immature digestive system, overstimulation, and difficulty self-regulating
What helps RIGHT NOW
- Colic hold — baby face-down on your forearm, head in the crook of your arm
- Warm cherry pit pillow on the belly (not too hot! — test on your wrist)
- Belly massage in a clockwise direction, with warm caraway oil
- Swaddling — the snugness soothes many babies
- White noise — hair dryer, range hood, app (loud! 65-70 dB)
- Bicycle motion — gently press baby's legs toward the belly and move in a cycling motion
Medical options (after consulting your doctor)
- Caraway suppositories (Carum carvi) — herbal, often well-tolerated
- Simethicone drops (Sab Simplex, Lefax) — break up gas bubbles
- Probiotics (L. reuteri) — studies show effectiveness for some babies
- Osteopathy — can help with birth-related tension
When to see your pediatrician
- If there's weight loss or poor weight gain
- If there's blood in stool or severe vomiting
- When YOU reach your limit — that is NOT a failure!
The most important message
It is NOT your fault. Colic is not a result of improper feeding or bad parenting. When you reach your limit: place baby safely down, leave the room, take a deep breath. And get help — cry baby clinic, midwife, family.
This information does not replace medical advice.